Plan to do self stimulating with your free hand.Combine your first movements with caresses or kisses.Doing it slowly and building up trust with your partner is the key to success. If you are a beginner in sex, this position is good as long as it is done slowly. Never start too quickly, rough, or with too much deep.Be sure you are fully lubricated before starting this position.I was interviewed for an article on Erotic Choking in Playboy by Bridget Phetasy – read it to learn more.
Do not put pressure on the trachea (the middle of the neck), because with around 8 lbs of pressure, you can do a lot of damage. Ask her what she thinks about this posture of just resting your hand around her throat lightly. Feel free to move your hand up towards her neck.Make sure not to mix fingers that go to the anus with those that go to the vagina. If you have been given consent, and want to explore further, you can go underneath the buttocks, with lubricated fingers, and caress these areas.Also, incorporating some spanking will raise the excitement level. Grabbing, holding or squeezing her butt can be a key move.This position is often stated to be one of the preferred positions of women, so if you want a night of perfect sex, ask her if this is something she wants.
Here are Some Tips on the Cowgirl Sex Position for the Partner: Well, to self-stimulate the external clitoris, breasts, or use a sex toy if needed.Ī woman can also grab her partner behind neck to kiss that partner while doing some penetration movements. The woman on top will have her hands free to use in many pleasurable ways! HOW?